13 Dangerous Personalities

When dealing with dangerous personalities, you need to understand they are brilliant in their tactics. They prey upon the 'unaware', but always accidentally drop some hints of their agenda...

The most well-known sign of a toxic person is they pose as your friend to get close to you - so you don't see the threat that is coming at you... They have to get to know you in order to learn what your weak spots are. You can generally pick up on the spirit of a person by observing their aura; but there are other warning signs to watch out for.

The 13 Dangerous Personality Types are:

1. Beware of a person who is in the wrong spirit: They carry conflict in their heart. This toxic person will give off a bad vibe because of the evil that lives within them. They are secretly abusive - yet give the impression they are perfectly normal. They're the ones who feel the need to "teach you a lesson".

2. Beware of the suspicious person: You will instantly know when dealing with this toxic trait by their body language. They will drop all kinds of cues they don't like or trust anyone. They have a general hatred for people and will gauge the conversation so you will agree with them in their hatred for others. 

3. Beware of the critic: People will criticize you, and hinder you from achieving your goals. They will say-nay to your desires in a vain attempt to keep you down with with them. Such people do not want to change for the better - but expect you to 'go' with their flow. 

4. Beware of the control freak: This toxic person seems to think they deserve ownership over your life. Everything they think and believe, you must think and believe too. You will never be allowed to 'be yourself' around them. 

5. Beware of the trickster: This toxic person bends you emotionally in order to get what they want from you. Don’t be fooled by their good looks and communication skills; you will have to live with the regret that you played into them, and suffer great (financial) loss!

6. Beware of the narcissist: This toxic person only values themselves and no one else. They have no self-awareness as it is replaced with self-centeredness. They will never care about you or acknowledge how they make you feel - and they will always make you feel like you are nothing when you're around them.

7. Beware of the victim: Such toxic people are not interested in working or doing anything to make their own lives better - and spend their lives blaming others - when it was their own lack if integrity, that got them into trouble. It's not that they can't help themselves - it's that they won't. They have no ambition in life but to seek the kindness of others, and accept their hand-outs.

8. Beware of the liar: This toxic person hides information, misleads others and denies they have committed any offenses. They lie to present and promote themselves to you. All of their opinions and views are based solely on the false belief that they possess knowledge and have something you may be interested in; they do this because they live in a false universe. 

9. Beware of the deceiver: A liar may hide something for their cause, but a deceiver wants to steal something from you. This toxic person wants to get close to you because they plan on taking something from you. It could be a lover, a promotion, a friend, your money or your identity. They pretend to be your friend, but the time they spend with you will only be on their terms.

10. Beware of the irresponsible person: I knew a lady who fell in love with a good looking man. They went on a "spending spree" to the sum of $40,000. He bolted and left her with this huge debt.

Another young lady who I met fell in love with a guy who - after a night of drinking - got behind the wheel of his car. She lost the use of her legs - and because of who his dad was, he was spared jail-time.

When a person wants to "have fun", it's a huge red-flag that you're headed for trouble!

11. Beware of the dishonest person: you know the man who is unfaithful and lies to you to spare your feelings...
Such a toxic person is only with you because they have a "use" for you. In their mind/heart, they are with someone else, or some place else.

12. Beware of the moody person: This toxic person will set you up for failure as they are unstable in all their ways. When you think you are doing right by them - they change and you ending up doing wrong by them. You can never do right and they can never do wrong. Most abusive mothers carry this toxic trait - which is unfortunate for the children who have to put up with them.

13. Beware of the psychopath: 

• They are socially disconnected
• They always say the right things...
• They confuse love as hate - and hate as love.
• They are driven by lust.
• They will troll you and collect information on you because you are their primary target.
• They will make up lies about you and tell you lies about others; this is to execute the "divide and conquer" method on you.
• They play head games, gaslight and make you doubt your own worth. 
• They refuse to acknowledge your boundaries.
• They lure you into long conversations - or arguments with no intention on having them resolved.
• They will try to isolate you and force you into their obscure world.
• They discourage you to have contact with your friends or family, and try to turn you against them.
• They make you believe they are the "good guy", and that they are "protecting you" as they take control of you...
• They don't take "NO" for an answer, and they have no regard for authority.
• They have an unhealthy interest in you (obsession), and try to make you think they know you better than you know yourself
• They place unrealistic expectations on you. Your obsessor feels the need to know where you are at all times, and know who you're with.
• They will make plans with you - but you will be the last to know about them.

You need to pay close attention when dealing with psychopaths; having self-awareness will put you in a better position when it comes to recognizing any of these toxic traits in someone. Once you do, get away from them the moment you recognize them. If you lead them on, expect trouble. 

Do alert your family members and possibly the authorities if you feel like you are in danger. Change your contact information (phone numbers, email addresses, vehicle and living address if you have to. 

The bottom line is that safety is your #1 priority!

#StaySafe