12 Signs Of Big Change

People are resistant to change unless it is for the better; but even that is limited when they're stuck in their comfort zone—and don't want to pursue anything past it.  

Before you can experience any change — you must have a sincere desire for it, then welcome it.

Signs of Big Change are:

1. Your change who you interact with on a daily basis. The company you keep have great influence on your life. They can hold you back, or accelerate you forward. The bottom line is they need to be adding value to your life or encouraging your dreams. 

2. You keep your emotions in check. When people are able to control their emotions, they effectively control their whole being. They comprehend the power of controlling their emotions by letting things go. They know the only way to control a situation is by controlling their emotions. No one, and no situation has any power over them.

3. You possess self awareness. This is all about knowing who you are, what you want out of life, and knowing what you are made of. This is more than a knowledge of your strengths and weaknesses; it's about self-certainty and the power to reveal your true self to others. This step is important especially when seeking new business partners, employment opportunities and pursuing personal relationships.

4. You realize that things don't happen "to you", they happen "For You". Setbacks are a part of life, and as long as you are applying the "take-away-lesson", your life literally changes for the better. I cannot emphasize this enough; all I can point out is this; you change your response during those set-backs — and that response converts the set-back, into a springboard!

5. You know what is best for yourself; you have a clear sense of what you need to accomplish, and how you’ll do it. Life has it's way of thrusting you into situations you will not be prepared for; when you combine your skills and experience with your core values, your mission becomes crystal clear. 

6. You have to believe you are one of the "special people" and that divine favor is upon you. One of my quotes is "You will never be as big as___ until you see yourself as good as___! The bottom line is if you have a healthy outlook on life, the outcome will be healthy, regardless of situation. When you have a poor outlook on life, the outcome will never be favorable.

7. You have taken ownership of your mistakes, and made amends so they do not affect you in the future. It's a sad thing to see people run from the very troubles they-themselves have caused. When you take ownership of mistakes, and make amends with those you have offended, they do not resurface and trouble you later on in life.

8. You feel like you’re life is going somewhere. Your life experiences up to this point have led you to become wiser, stronger, and confident — and you see the positive influence you have on others!

9. You suddenly do things that you never used to do—that just 'fits' in with your daily life. I recently starting going to the gym in the morning and I take advantage of the whole facility — pool and all! It is a wonderful and positive way to start each day — and that positivity stays with me all throughout the day!

10. You set the course of your own life. Another one of my quotes is "When you are in agreement with others, make sure you are not in disagreement with yourself". When you live your life the way others want you to, you will live with an endless inner-conflict. You must be the 'chooser' — and the sole 'decision-maker' of your own life . When you give your power over to others— you begin to doubt your own abilities/decisions. Never Doubt!!! Your choices and decisions usually stem from your skills, character, development and core values. When you apply that with your decision making, you become a powerful force!

11. You now see yourself in a new light — and this is a major part of your purposeful life—and you reveal that to others through your aura. People will respond very well to you—and feed off of you (energy). Another quote of mine is "You have to dress for the respect you expect from others". When you see yourself in a different light, you present yourself in a way that generate the exact response you expect from them.

12. You annihilate all fear! Action is the antidote to fear — and when you take action, you take control of every area of your life. By taking action, you ultimately change your life permanently—and become unstoppable!