What You Need to Know About Protecting Your Wife's Femininity

What You Need to Know About Protecting Your Wife's Femininity    

    Feminine and masculine  roles are under attack. We have men pretending to be women and women who lack regard for their femininity Women need to protect their own femininity (as men, their masculinity). Husbands & wives need to protect each others as well.

    Here's what you can do to show that you value your wife's femininity:

Protect her from:

1. Danger - keep her safe from harm - even if it's at your own expense.

2. Dishonor - to defend her and keep her dignity in tact. Never tolerate her being insulted or assaulted in any way. 

3. In Anger/Conflict - deal with all problems that arise peacefully and compromisingly.

4. In Trial - to peacefully seek resolution and patiently wait for it. Reassure her that everything will be alright.

5. In Emotion - If she's happy, you're happy; If she's angry, you're angry; If she cries, you offer your shoulder; this lets her know she is listened to & supported.

6. In Decision Making - to be willing to take the leadership role - not delegating your responsibility on her. 

7. In Tradition - men are the bread-winners; women are the supporters. If money in a relationship is important to you, then choose money instead of a relationship. If you prefer a relationship, then make sure she fiscally matched with you before you commit to her. If she it's not fiscal match, then let your love for her be strong!

   I have seen far too many men go after a beautiful woman, then as he becomes successful, he beats her down, accuses her of being a 'gold-digger', then tosses her aside and pursues his lusts. This should not be!

   Men, you need to keep your emotions & priorities in check. Sure, some of you may be successful and have the right to be selfish at times, but not at your wife's expense - especially if you've already started a family! 

    If you feel you are at risk of selfishness, then don't start a family. If you've already started one, your provision for them should match what you intend on giving to yourself.

8. In Family Planning - men are to look after the family financially & women look after them providentially. These, after all, are traditional proper and important gender roles. Children need a loving, clean home where they are nurtured by both parents. Children suffer when their parents are not present both-physically and emotionally.

   We have not come away from tradition, but from our core values. We are sublimely taught to be selfish through ads & media articles. The modern church hammers down on self-promotion - while the traditional church hammers down on sin... No wonder married couples and families are suffering; good leadership is scarce. 

   When you place yourself above your wife that you took, or children that you brought into this world, then you are selfish and have no ability to see what is right.

9. In Finance - Men are the bread-winners, women are the supporters. The bulk of the funds brought in should go to support the home-stead (food clothing shelter); the extras should go to make life more enjoyable - for all!

   If your wife and children come after you, you are blessed and you demonstrate your ability to lead your family. Contentment trumps riches and doesn't lead to depression, when one falls short of it. 

10. In Expectation - Be consistent - direct and up front; no one can relate to a restless heart. Make your needs and desires known - she may be happy to fulfill them. She would rather be a part of this deep side of you - as opposed to you searching for personal fulfillment outside of the relationship. 

   In conclusion, every woman wants a man who can relate to her - and every man wants a woman to accept him for who he is. This is what relationship building is all about.