Benefits of Tender Communication

Benefits of Tender Communication 

This study was done by Dr. James Lynch. His findings are quite amazing. When we are all tense and feel the need to give someone a piece of our minds, it is not good for the giver. These moments impact our health and relationships — both personal and business.

Speaking softly causes people to stop talking and moving so they can hear you. The softer you speak will also cause people to lean in and watch your mouth form the words. This is why soft talkers command attention.

When you speak calmly, the information goes down a lot smoother because it shows others you believe in their ability to listen.

Speaking softly alleviates loneliness — a caring voice can diminish feelings of loneliness and isolation fostering a sense of connection.

Speaking softly reduces stress and anxiety — a caring voice can increase happiness and promote relaxation.

Uplifting words and encouragement can boost mood and promote feelings of well-being. 

Clear compassionate communication helps in understanding—resolving conflicts and saving broken relationships. 

Speaking softly improves physical health — positive social interactions through tender conversation can improve cardiovascular health, boost immunity and increase life expectancy! 

Speaking softly enhances emotional well-being — tender conversation can better emotional health leading to improved self-esteem overall satisfaction with life. 

The soothing quality of a tender voice can trigger the body's natural healing process— it promotes healing—aiding in recovery from illness and trauma. 

A calm, polite voice sends a message that you have good intuition, your soothing tone allows others to concentrate and therefore respond better.

What you do is more influential than what you say. When you speak softly to others, they will do the same — and be more respectful when they speak to you, as well as to others.