Perfect Response To Belittling


Why do some people feel the need to put others down? It's because they have a need to control · want a temporary ego boost · look at your imperfection (mostly perceived · not real) · and some just want to cause another emotional pain.

They seem to think they are "something else" when really · they are a BIG nothing!

The truth is they see something in you that is valuable · and they can't match it; so they attempt to bring you down instead.

In reality, they are dealing with flawed lifestyles · unresolved issues · unmet needs · and are troubled by them; this is just one of the ways they avoid dealing with their own issues and attempt to feel good about themselves.

They say "Happiness is the best revenge", it's because you have risen above their lame gossip/belittling.

The good news is people like us already do feel good about ourselves · and don't fall apart when insulted; our lives are manageable and altogether very well and our critic knows that!

Stay high my darling - eagles fly above the storm · that the rest get caught in!




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